Mission

Be The Tipping Point

We’re here to help 1 billion growth-oriented humans rise, transforming survival patterns into secure, sovereign relationships
from the inside - out with inquiry, self-aware self-care & secure relating rituals.

We become the tipping point when we reclaim power from the enslaving narratives that keep us coping to survive.

Vision

We Are The Butterfly Effect

THIS IS HOW WE CREATE OUR FUTURE

A future of secure children, clear-hearted leaders, conscious workplaces, and co-creative relationships is in everyday choices.
When we choose intimacy over fear, curiosity and co-creation over control, and truth over performing or pleasing — together we become the butterfly effect.

The Butterfly Effect of Becoming Intrinsic
is that you not only come home to the power of who you are but you remember why you're here.

Culture shifts through the micro-choices we make in our everyday lives like the flap of a butterfly's wings.

We are the future unfolding right now - and we are more powerful than we’ve been taught to believe.

If no one taught you how to relate authentically, from safety, instead of survival, you’re not alone—and it’s not your fault.

With radical honesty and accountability, we stopped waiting to be saved
and chose instead to make the world stronger by how we lead, love, and relate with every day rituals.

We did it by:

One act of self-leadership at a time (processing not reacting)
One ritual of sovereign self-care at a time fufilling unmet needs
One brave choice to rise—not shrink—at a time exposing ourselves to new worlds unfamiliar to our survival system
One skill of secure relating at a time - normalizing authentic connection over transactional behaviour
One courageous moment of connection over defence means less need for repair, but repair means deeper connection through courage to be vulnerable

Values

Our Values

This is how we navigate our choices, agreements and feel the peace of integrity as we expand our mission and ourselves in the process.

We Are Authentic

We aim to live in the present, here and now, where no comparisons from the past and projections of the future exist, where we are both messy and majestic, becoming as a process, we can hold seemingly opposing emotions and allow for life's wisdom to teach us about the nature of love, life and leadership. We can see and know ourselves clearly and therefor do so for others.

We Are Sovereign Self Care

We own our responses, choices
growth areas

capacity to co-create
projections & assumptions

gifts & wounds claiming our power to write our own story.

We are free on the inside and modelling freedom to others. Free from needing to shrink or pretend in order to be accepted or revered.

We, instead, trust our inner guidance and the co-creative process of life. When you’re anchored in your inner knowing, you meet life’s challenges with grounded confidence — making decisions that honour both your truth and your relationships.

We Are Growth

We don't dig our heels into opinions and avoid the discomfort of stepping into the unknown, we find the challenge and lean into the power of sovereign self care for a sense of ground. We connect to our true selves to feel supported to go beyond the familiar - where magic happens.

When we seek to provide enough of our own certainty or security to open ourselves to the unknown, to collaborate, to trust our guidance, we discover that we are OK, safe and much more than we ever imagined.

We choose to go all the way through what challenges face us to gain the wisdom and truly grow instead of perpetuate the painful cycles

We Are Tribe

As in nature, we are all connected by the unified field (or consciousness itself) meaning our thoughts, feelings & actions affect each other.

We cannot succeed in isolation, it is an interdependent journey. This is also known in Bantu speaking African value systems as: "Ubuntu: I am because we are." pointing to "the belief in a universal bond of sharing that connects all humanity".

Without the key 5 types of people in our village we do not thrive to our potential meaning that our quality of life is the result of relationship. The culture of thriving is co-created in sovereignty.

We Practice Integration

We do not jump from peak experience to peak experience aggressively seeking to identify with some falsely permanent sense of self or success but rather give permission to ourselves to integrate awareness in its regulated and co-regulated states.
Softening our rigid, survival biology and defensive beliefs, we discover we are building reliable, resilient strength.

Practice makes us potent, Perfect is not the goal.

Who is The Beloved Process for?

Beloved is For

Deep thinkers with tender hearts
Emotionally intelligent but relationally stuck
Spiritually connected but secretly lonely
Devoted to growth, love, and a lasting legacy
Ready to embody the presence they long to be and to receive love's gifts more deeply
Leaders, lovers, and learners aching to live their truth at work and at home in steadier, truer expression
Inner sovereignty that doesn’t push others away
Soft power—strength without the armor
Nervous system congruence: where their boundaries, values, and emotions line up
Real, nourishing connection that isn’t a performance
To live from creator state, not survival state

At Work You Want:

To be heard before being evaluated
Collaborative dialogue that allows space for nuance, not just solutions
Fewer power struggles, more invitations to co-create and listen deeply
Clarity without confrontation—the ability to name truth with kindness
Brave spaces, not just “safe spaces”—where emotional honesty is met with emotional maturity
Communication norms that account for nervous system diversity, not just cognitive processing
Feel grounded and valued in fast-paced or high-demand environments
Trust themselves to lead or contribute without the fear of burnout
Experience fulfillment from meaningful, values-aligned work—not just achievement
Let go of imposter syndrome or internal pressure to perform at all costs
Feel safe expressing needs or boundaries without being seen as “too much” or “not enough”
Reclaim creative flow and vitality without compromising professionalism
Co-regulate instead of absorb everyone else’s emotional charge

In Love You Want:

Be seen and accepted fully, not just for their potential or performance
Let love in without the fear of abandonment, engulfment, or betrayal
Co-regulate, not co-depend—they want to feel secure even in moments of disharmony
Be in relationships that nourish, not deplete
Reveal their true self—not the performative or people-pleasing version
Share intimacy that is deep, not just sexual—psychic, emotional, soulful
Know it’s safe to be in the “messy middle”—not just the polished version of love
Partners who can name their own emotions, not outsource their regulation
Conflict to be an opportunity for intimacy, not disconnection or punishment
To not have to teach emotional skills all the time—they want an equal, not a project
Create space to evolve together, even through identity shifts or spiritual awakenings
Trust in the pauses—knowing that love isn’t dependent on constant performance or proximity
Embrace transparency over perfection—they'd rather you fumble honestly than avoid vulnerability
Overcome chronic burnout from being the responsible one, the caretaker, the overgiver
Nervous system dysregulation (freeze, fawn, anxious-preoccupied or avoidant loops)
Overcome fear of intimacy or self-sabotage when love gets real
Overcome loyalty to old wounds—clinging to outdated roles or trauma-bonded dynamics
Patterns of over-earning love (through work, self-sacrifice, or “fixing” others)
Overcome distrust in their own inner knowing due to being gaslit or ignored in past relationships or systems.
Overcome addiction to survival states—feeling most alive when there’s a crisis or someone else to save
Integrate their identity—wanting to integrate all parts of themselves, not compartmentalize.

High-functioning individuals—especially men, leaders, and creatives—wanting the shift from insecure attachment to soulful, sustainable intimacy and a life story they love, together. so they can rise and thrive cocreating a more livable and loving world.

The Beloved Process Story

The Beloved Process Was Born

A dear friend—who had grown a college startup into a global company—once urged me:
“Start a conscious dating agency. The world needs you in this space.”

I saw the wisdom to his suggestion but I didn’t see growth I wanted to see in love by just matching people. I wanted to teach how to cultivate a reliable container for love's intelligence to surface what was yet to be accepted and loved when it was safe or secure enough to arise. I wanted people to understand that intimacy containers partner to grow your purpose, primarily to be authentically who you are, secondarily to use those gifts and shadows to serve the world. Intimacy is not a separate category it feeds all the other aspects of life. I wanted to teach the skill of processing emotions effectively and communicating healthily and turning to face challenges together instead of perceiving each other as the problem. I wanted people to know their fulll capacity not merely compatibility and compromise.

I let his request and my resistance agitate and gestate... until it became a pearl.

During the worldwide lockdown, I was living in the jungles of rural Costa Rica, where I wrote the bones of The Beloved Process. There—isolated from my home country but alive in channelling this method—I faced the grief that remained and called me to create a cathedral of acceptance for all that I yet needed to grieve and that resonated for so many others I met before and since that strange time where fear took over the world in a quick an unanimous swoop thatalso simultaneously inspired the human spirit that only knows oneness. . I don't mean grief as in being sad - but to give what losses that had piled up over the past years that didn't know how to be seen, loved, cherished and trusted to be expressed; to give them a rightful and worthy home. Still, the world moved too fast to acknowledge- the loss of safety, home, trust, identity for some, and still others, their innocence or reason to dream. I was called to create a home for these parts that yearned to be acknowledged and housed in my memory, choices, rituals and words. I grieved for me, for others. My grief was my first phase of praise, reverence and space-making for what was to come as a service. I first had to let go of residual suffering from where I had not been authentic and caused pain to others. I softened into a tended inner temple, letting the residue wash away in a volcanic spring river. I gave myself permission to simply be me, as I am now, a good enough vessel for the intentions my life can serve.

Returning to Canada, I met brave, sovereign souls walking their own path of love and justice guided from their personal dharma. I trusted my intuition implicitly which brought me the team that I would then collaborate with in sovereignty missions. When I sensed something was still missing from the equation for lasting change, I trusted my intuition.

Due to that guidance, I was led to Thais Gibsons' Integrated Attachment Theory—and everything clicked.
Her brilliance clarified the final piece to answer my question: How to truly heal relational breakdown and suffering at the root—through the lens of our attachment wounds- which affect our relational health but also our personal health.

Studies prove that the top contributor to our health and longevity is the quality of our relationships.

Gratefully, I finally found a process that took only weeks to begin feeling the effects not decades and I used it to heal my own core wounds. Healing at the root gives a solid, grounded awareness that helps you feel more capable in essential challenges. It allows you to anchor in being authentically you, unwavering yet flexible, a presence that ripples outward into families, workplaces, and systems through everyday choices.

When we reclaim our sovereignty, our love and leadership become medicine—right where its needed most: in our everyday lives.

The Beloved Process Today

I took my own journey, socially systemic lens and passion to show people their intrinsic power and built it into a 16 week immersive journey from survival to sovereignty that you can use in your intimate relationships to build a foundation of reliable skill to relate authentically, to show up as you heal, take on life giving and receiving never hiding or over-giving.

I made it rich with intimate one on one support and catalyzed it with group support in the practice dojo so each skill felt real and reliable. It’s for those tired of feeling not good enough, broken, helpless and exhausted yet know there is something more whole, alive and important out there for them.

It is for those ready to love as their authentic self so they can trust it and reciprocate freely.

For those done with surviving—and ready to thrive.

I curated the program in a retreat style because life gives you the stresses that break down your relational muscle but you only get stronger when you rest into structures that allow you to integrate.

Retreats are designed for integration and restoration that we don't necessarily carve out for ourselves in everyday life routines until we are motivated to design our own dinacharya or daily routine. So whether you take online training which feels like a retreat and destination immersions are in -person retreats.

Journal Anchored, Practice Driven and Soul Nourishing

Each participant gets a customized program and 1:1 coaching - they capture their personal insights within a printable journal prompt from each week of your personalized program to eventually form what will become your own Book of Love—page by page, with real-life inquiry, powerful rituals, and a clear roadmap of:

who you are, more fully
what love means to you, how to cultivate and navigate it to thrive not just survive the surfacing patterns
how to meet another in a way that sustains authenticity, joy, and growth together and with the essential presence of a supportive village - love was never meant to be a journey shouldered by just two

The Beloved Process is rooted in a synthesis of trauma-informed, soul-aligned frameworks:

Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™
Somatic Healing & Nervous System Repair
Nonviolent Communication & Emotional Mastery
Ayurveda & German New Medicine insights and infrastructure
Sovereignty, Intimacy & Trauma-Informed Leadership Skills
Authentic Relating for intimacy and dealing with difficult people
CPTSD Recovery & Relational Resilience guided support for those who suffer and are rarely met in the medical industry

What to expect?

You’ll de-stress your nervous system, reclaim your emotional bandwidth, clarify your purpose and co-create a love story worth sharing—with someone who resonates deeply and is also devoted to the craft of love - whether the person you are already with or the one that comes from the wisdom your current relationship is preparing you both for.
You will confidently face challenges together, stronger for the repair
You will have the authentic permission slip to build your sovereign community with clarity as to what is needed to thrive and love confidently trusting the growth it will bring and any challenges you will face turning together toward what you are creating not surviving.