Intrinsically Powerful Partnerships Rise & Thrive on Purpose
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Your First Year of Marriage is Very Different From the Rest - Here Is Your Chance To​​​ Claim The Confidence to Create An Unstoppable Bond Even in The Face of Conflict, Confusion & The Unexpected in as little as 16 Weeks.
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You Put a Ring On It, That's Amazing!
You Are a Team That Can Face Anything Together.
Yet You Would Never Climb a Mountain Without Consulting on the Relevant Tools & Terrain For The Rougher Weather You May Encounter.
You're Aware That it Takes More Than Love to
Thrive The Coming Adventure.
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Still, Many Couples Sabotage Their Love Story With Unexplored Survival Patterns Laying Dormant or Stuck in the Subconscious Mind
Why? Because Hidden Patterns Guide Everyday Beliefs, Emotions, Coping and Communication Habits.
After The Honeymoon Period Ends or Intimacy and Safety Surface Old Patterns That Are Seeking To Be Healed - You Enter The Hero's Journey.
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We're Here to Help You With Exactly What Skills & Rituals Will Secure Your Bond in Creatorship not Survivorship - So You Will Have The Essential Skills of Secure Relating To Cultivate Unstoppable Team Mindset: Mutual Freedom, Growth & Fulfillment.
You both deserve it, and your village around you does too! ​​
Want a Love Story For Life?
Why Just Survive Together When You Can Create Together?
​Because when WE reclaim secure presencE
it shifts entire systems.
Your nervous system.
Your family system.
Your work culture.
Your community.
AND YOUR LOVE STORY.​​​​​​
Did You Know That...
Up to 97%
of our thoughts, reactions,
and relationship choices
are shaped by subconscious patterns—formed before we turned 7 YEARS OLD?​​​
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Yes, our early conditioning is that powerful!
It teaches us what love feels like, how much to trust, and whether it’s safe to express our needs in important relationships. It holds the cause to our emotional patterns, coping mechanisms and sense of what is possible in life.
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So, if you grew up supported and validated, you likely feel safe being yourself in love: you can express emotions, set boundaries, and recover from conflict without spiralling.
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But if your early environment lacked consistency, safety, or emotional presence, your nervous system may still be stuck in survival patterns—like over-giving, shutting down, or trying to “fix” your way into being loved. It doesn't work no matter how sincere your effort or how well the stars are aligned. Generations of pain are perpetuated from attachment wounds until we stop the pattern and inquire within.
Yes, the biggest contributor to our partner decision-making capacity is our subconscious conditioning which creates a bias keeping us in a loop of repeated, unsatisfying patterns in relationships if we are insecurely attached.
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That means that our free will is not freed up until we are relating securely. ​​​
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Rewire Your Attachment Style
Rewrite A Life Story You Love
You've done work on yourself ...
SO, WHY ARE YOU STILL SEEING THE SAME PATTERN?
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Understanding your wounds isn’t the same as being free from them. Because most of us weren’t taught how to love — we simply echoed what we were modelled and adapted to survive and these outdated strategies are still operating as adults which sabotage our life force, quality of love and success in reaching our goals. So how do we transform the tension, conflict, or emotional dysregulation (and the many ways we cope with them) into mutually beneficial communication, rituals and shared understanding?
Even with all the self-awareness in the world, you can still feel hijacked in the moment.
That’s because insight doesn’t rewire the nervous system. Integration does. This means the body (soma) and the mind (psyche) need the chance to normalize coherence and our relationships need the skill to create coherence even amongst change.
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Over the past decade, Attachment Science has risen to the top of relationship conversations — because it explains the hidden patterns that drive how we connect, withdraw, overextend, or guard ourselves.
But here's the difference:
Understanding your patterns won’t transform them.
Reconditioning them at the nervous system level will.​ ​
Which pattern sounds
most like yours?
Click through the slider and check out the core wounds underneath the stories.
To find out more information about your attachment style click here
THE GREAT NEWS:
Attachment isn't fixeD; it's FLUID
Whichever attachment style you are, it's not fixed - which means even if you think you have a "broken picker" you are not intrinsically broken, you just need the tools and an environment to support the relationship patterns that lead to deeper fulfillment, intimacy and freedom to grow.
That is what The Beloved Process offers.
Click through the slider to check out the core wounds underneath the patterns
Aeryana Castley
REWIRE YOUR ATTACHMENT
REWRITE YOUR LOVE STORY
Create Great Love...
THIS IS WHY WE ARE DIFFERENT...
The Beloved Process is your return to relational sovereignty —to loving without losing yourself, to leading without armouring up, to being met without having to prove your worth.​
Grow into secure attachment and make life choices rooted in freedom from coping mechanisms stemming from insecure attachment where wounds run the show unintentionally. Replace fear-driven narratives that keep you coping instead of thriving. Feel alive in relationships shifting from "what can I get from this relationship?" - a survivalist question - toward "what can we create together?"
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FIND OUT WHAT THE BELOVED PROCESS ACHIEVES...
Insecure Attachment is the Root of Scarcity Patterns in Love, Leadership and Life Relationships.
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When your nervous system feels supported, your heart can open.
And that’s when your love story begins to change — from the inside out.
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Rewire at the Root
& Rise in All of Life.
With Integrative Attachment Coaching, you're not coping to survive life and each other. You're shifting the source of frustrating patterns at the subconscious root to actually heal and thrive together.
Love was designed to help us in becoming our authentic, free and powerfully present self - both alone and in partnership - but the emotion of love isn't enough.
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Backed by neuroscience, this healing process brings lasting change to the root of how you relate — not just romantically, but in how you lead, set boundaries, and trust yourself under pressure so you can trust yourself as you rise and thrive.
You don’t need years to change.
I wish I found this method in my twenties but the truth is, powerful love can be found and created at any age.
Its never too late.
The more important fact is not exactly how long it will take to shift from core wounds running the show but rather, the fact that we attract what we are - the patterns that we run subconsciously are reflected in our partner so if we want a better relationship, we need to take back our power of responsibility.
From a spark - comes our chance to evolve.
Our subconscious wounds - when found as a match in another - it sparks an attraction that is hard to ignore because it is like a biological "second chance' to heal or resolve the story setup in childhood to get the secure love you needed. Amazing, right?
The sooner we rewire our core wounds and learn the skills to relate securely, the sooner we:
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relate authentically, freely
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can create more purpose-focused lifestyles
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nurture a growth partnership where you both get better and yet more at ease
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communicate clearly instead of withholding around unspoken expectations
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process emotions to tend to the unmet needs underneath reducing the "charge" in relational upsets; increasing accountability and trust
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tending to belief patterns and choosing in alignment with our conscious intent
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create the safety and boundaried agreements allowing us to have patience and respect for our partner's journey and our own amidst varying degrees of capacity
After as quick as 16 weeks you will be living new chapters of your life story calling in the love you thought you couldn't hold. You will have the practices ingrained and know what to do when triggers surprise you and bring up old conditioning.​
​​From Survival to Secure — What Healing Looks Like
in Real Life...​
If you tend to over-give or chase connection (Anxious-Preoccupied):
From: Texting back instantly, overthinking your partner's tone, doubting your worth
To: Trusting space in the relationship, expressing needs with clarity, magnetizing respect​
If you tend to shut down or avoid emotional intimacy
(Dismissive-Avoidant):​
From: Feeling drained by emotional needs, craving distance, hiding vulnerability
To: Feeling safe expressing emotions, leading from empathy, co-creating connection without losing yourself​
If you tend to push-pull or feel torn between intimacy and self-protection (Fearful-Avoidant):
From: Over-analyzing, fearing betrayal, testing your partner’s love
To: Grounding in emotional safety, choosing connection over chaos, building relational confidence
Find out where you are at in your journey toward the authentic, fulfilling world of secure relating.
Book Your Free Strategy Call
Discover the Hidden Pattern Blocking Connection — and the Path to Relating with Sovereign Confidence.
This isn’t a discovery call or a mini pitch to our program either — it’s a value-rich 60 minute session where you’ll be:
✅ Heard, validated, and seen for the truth of where you're at in love and how much you’re holding on your own that isn't yours to hold
✅ Guided to the root of what’s really driving the relationship stress
✅ Given a clear pathway to shift from self-abandonment, anxiety, or over-giving into a secure, magnetic presence that creates deeper love and clarity — whether you're currently single or in partnership
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If it’s a fit, you’ll be invited into The Beloved Process, a proven path to stop leaking energy and start creating the kind of love, intimacy, and sovereign connection your nervous system has craved all along.
📆 Book your 60-minute strategy session now
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Conflicted to Connected (Couples)
For pairs who feel the call to grow deeper — not just closer.
This path is for couples who know their bond is meaningful — but maybe you're navigating old wounds, miscommunication, or a pattern that feels stuck.
Rather than assigning blame or avoiding conflict, this journey gives you a shared language, real-time tools, and space to rebuild connection through truth and tenderness.
You’ll learn to:
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Navigate contrast without shutdown or escalation
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Build intimacy without losing individuality
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Support each other’s healing without playing therapist
Together, you’ll step into a secure, empowered dynamic where love feels like a co-creation, not a tug-of-war.​​​
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BETA OFFER ONLY
You get 8 sessions per month
at $52 each which is 1/3 the cost of one session!
16 week Beloved Process (couples)
$52/session
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$4997* CAD ($416/month)
(Save BIG! Industry rates $200/hr = $9600 total) ​
BRING ANOTHER COUPLE
& GET YOUR 2 for 1
PROMO CODE
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*12 month payment plan available​
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Grab The 2025 Beta Launch Deals
*these will not be offered again
2 FOR 1
​Bring a couple you want to grow old with and enjoy the process!
When they sign up and name you, you both receive %50 off
Our Solo package already offers 8 sessions per month at the price of 1 standard rate session of coaching or counselling.
What? Yes, you and a friend can also both get 8 sessions per month with Beloved for the price of 1 session elsewhere.
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4 FOR 1
when you bring 3 friends, your fee is waived entirely!​
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PROMO CODES OFFERED IN FREE STRATEGY CALL ​
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You are more powerful than you think.
The Beloved Process is your incubator for relational sovereignty —to loving without losing yourself, to leading without armouring up, to being met without having to prove your worth.​
You can grow into secure attachment and make life choices rooted in freedom not fear which means
you shift from
"what can I get from this relationship?" - a survivalist question -
toward "what can we create together?"